The holiday season can be overwhelming and demanding. It can also be filled with high expectations. Children, young and old, are busy creating their wish lists. Depending on their age, the list can get expensive very quickly.
Over the years, I’ve tried to teach my kids to be grateful for what they have; however, I still hear comments from my daughters about something not being good enough. Even though they are grown, my goal remains the same: to continue to show them how to be grateful for what they’ve received.
Here are some tips below to teach your kids how to be thankful this holiday season and all year round:
1. Lead by example. Say “thank you” in your home. Show appreciation to your kids when they do something you asked of them. When others serve you, like at a store or restaurant, please give them a genuine thank you. These two simple words can be very powerful. It lets others know you appreciate them. A simple thank you could make their day!
2. Don’t buy everything on their wish list. It’s natural to feel the need to buy your kids every present on the list. When my oldest daughter was young, my wife and I stood in the cold in front of Toys R Us so we could buy her the Barbie Dream House. Unfortunately, the more you give, the more they want.
Talk to your kids about their lists. Find out what they really want, then prioritize the list accordingly. They won’t appreciate everything they've received if you buy everything on their lists. If you buy the presents that are the most meaningful, you can teach them to be thankful for what they received. I always try to teach my children that it’s about quality, not quantity.
3. Teach them the value of money. If you make them use their own money, it’s interesting to see how fast they change their tune. When kids have to save for something they really want, it helps teach them that money doesn’t grow on trees. It also teaches them to appreciate what they have. Moreover, when the day comes to make that big purchase, they can feel good about it.
4. Encourage them to volunteer. Volunteering at a local charity and serving those in need can be a fantastic experience. It can help them put things in perspective. Volunteering also allows you to have meaningful conversations before, during, and after an event.
5. Patience is a virtue. Kids won’t understand gratitude right away. Sometimes as adults, we don’t show gratitude or appear to understand it. For it to finally sink in, you must continually show them how, so be patient.
6. Teach them to be gracious and respectful all year round. Once the holiday season ends, gratitude and respect for others don’t go to the curb with the Christmas tree. Teaching them to be gracious and respectful all year is important.
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